Are you one of the millions searching the Internet in the hopes of finding a new best friend with benefits?
If so, then today is definitely your lucky day because I am going to teach you a single word which, if used correctly, almost quadruples your chances of hooking up with multiple dating partners willing to take it to the next level.
All you need to do is use this word with all of your friends as a kind of gentle ice breaker and see how they react
If they seem open to it, you’re in. If not, quickly change the subject and move on to happier hunting grounds.
As an additional bonus, potential mates will be doubly impressed that you even know such a difficult word.
So, here’s how it works.
Next time you are talking to a potential prospect, and you’re getting good vibes, casually drop the word “polyamory” into the discussion.
For example, “I found out yesterday that my co-worker is gay, but I myself am more into polyamory.”
See how easy that was!
The discussion will then naturally shift to you – sounding smart – explaining the meaning of this new intelligent-sounding word.
At which time most people, if at all interested, will probably say something like, “Yeah, I’m into poly too.”
For those of you not on the bandwagon yet, polyamory – poly for short – means the taking of many loves.
In a nutshell, that means that polyamorous people believe in forming partnerships with more than one mate at a time.
That’s right! What better way to be hip and way beyond cutting-edge than to announce to the world that you too are into poly.
Let’s be honest.
Bigamy went out with Solomon and his 800 wives. Monogamy is so last century. And being straight, gay or bi doesn’t work for everybody.
That leaves us with polyamory, which may very well represent your final and last best opportunity to adopt an alternate lifestyle that sets you apart from the teaming masses.
It does not matter a lick if you are a man, woman or whatever as being poly can work for everybody.
All you need is to realize that all of your needs, fantasies and desires are most likely not going to be fulfilled by a single person.
Why not get your romantic love from one mate, physical satisfaction from another, have your fantasies fulfilled by another, and never have to be concerned about how to get a date again.
The poly lifestyle is almost utopian in nature and may be the ultimate answer to today’s soaring divorce rates. It also offers a 21st century solution to a problem that has been with humans from the beginning of time.
There are also more tools than ever to help you score a poly mate. I recommend http://www.matchalot.com. Even though this site is still new and needs to get more members, it is still the best way around when it come to how to make new friends online.
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